not established????

soo i just got told that i wasnt established enough to be with him!!! This is coming from someone who is 31 and lives in a sober house.. granted he has a car and a good job but lives in a sober house!!!! i am 24 i work 1 full time job and 2 part time.... and on top of that i am taking classes and live in apartment with a roommate!!! can you please tell me how he could say that about me? he said that we were on two different paths and in 5 years from now i would be where he wants me to be today.... i have so much more going for me than he does... i am kinda hurt and insulted!!!! 

I'm not sure how he could tell you this because I don't know you personaly but some men can be asses. Some are great ppl. I would say kick him in the NARDS hehehe...Because he got what he wanted out of you and took advantage of that knowing who you were before hand. You should straight up say "yeah your not where I want you to be either, I thought you were but your not and sadly 5 years from now I don't think you will even be close....Sorry maybe we just BOTH made a mistake" don't let him play you like that. He's an ass. Show him whos boss girl.

Bobbye

 Don't be insulted at all.  He's just making excuses and he's being manipulative...you don't need that!   I had an ex that would say *hit like that just to cause me pain and HE was the one with all the issues, not me.  Not to lessen the fact that being sober is an accomplishment for someone with drinking problems, if he does have a relapse in the future are you really willing to deal with all that comes along with that?    If you were to have kids, would you want them in that potentially dangerous situation?    I know that may seem a long way off but do think about things like that because sometimes people wait to think about it until it's too late.  

You deserve much better than him...someone *****SPECTS you for who you are and what you have already accomplished, not what they want you to accomplish.  Tell him you aren't interested because you need someone more stable than him....

((HUGS))

~Emily~

He's a loser who is making excuses.

Stop contact with him.

All contact.

Don't text. Don't email. Don't call. Don't IM.

You get the picture. Tell him later. Have a nice life.

Block him from contacting you on messenger or Myspace or however you chat.

And block his number from your phone if you can.

I speak from experience... I got rid of a giant loser for good in Feb. I wasted 1 year of my life with a guy who obviously wasn't that into me.

Speaking of which... you might want to read he's just not that into you.

Good read.

You shoulda laugh hard on his facE!!!! lol.
You worth sooooooo much more than that, u deserve something better and he just made it easier for you.  so be thankful i coulda have gotten uglier! soo yay!! he is an ass..... and u found that out in perfect  timing!
Ur such a beautiful woman and can have any guy u want.

now i just can say...... NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol


(((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))

Tell him that you need someone who will last longer than five minutes anyway! even if it was good sex dont tell him that....make him feel insecure! good luck hun. you know that you are going somewhere with your life and someone else who is mature will appreciate that. good luck hun!

lol i wish i could have any guy i wanted!!!!! i still think its soo funny, when he said he wants to still be friends with me! i know i have so much to offer someone, how could he not see that. i mean i know i am not no britney spears, but if hes going by looks that is shallow!

O HELL!!!!

GIRL...SCREW HIM...HES THE DAMN LOSER...NOT YOU,....HE WILL BE BEGGING U TO BE BACK WITH HIM IN NO TIME..AND U CAN JUST TELL HIM TO F**k OFF...=).... WITH A HUGE SMILE ON UR FACE...=)


BoRiCuA408

Just remember that he may seem like MAYBE he's the one for you, and even through all the bull**** and the pain he causes you, that if he gave you the chance you'd be with him in a heartbeat...but in the end...he's just Mr. Right Now. He's not the end-all-be-all of men. And you may want and need him right now in this moment, but in the end it would be a mistake.

You look out for yourself, lady. You are beautiful. You are smart. You are strong. You are taking over your life and shedding all the extra baggage.

 I thought of this while I was in the shower (where i do my best thinking, strange enough).  BUT, it is best to have no contact with this guy because I'm sure his idea of "being friends" is going to just turn into him wanting some action when he feels like it....which makes him an even bigger loser.  Don't fall for it...best to just cut ties.  

~Emily~